Love is a choice - it is an act of your will
Loving is and act of your will - it is a deliberate choice you make. This is radical or true love which transcends our emotions and operates on the principle of grace. You may not like the attitude or habits of a person but you choose to love the person.
Love is kindness - It involves forgiving
No one is perfect and as such, love will include some disappointments. While we see flaws in others, others see our flaws. The key is to forgive others, exercise kindness and help them overcome their weakness even as they help us overcome ours.
Love involves great effort - It is not for wimps
Be careful about the expectations you place on others to reciprocate your kindness. It is only when you don;t attach any conditions that you get the best results. Love is not for wimps. It's for courageous people to go beyond their feelings and do what is right!
Love is a process - It grows into maturity
Love like any seed planted takes careful nurturing to grow into a mature tree that bears good fruit. It has to be watered and nourished with lots of patience, huge doses of kindness and even scarifies. Simply put, love is not a short-term thing. Like fine wine, love matures over time and as you embark on your journey to Love, you'll taste of its sweetness! Remember that as you began loving others unconditionally, you'll be blessed even as you become a blessing!
Thursday, December 31, 2009
True love is always unconditional
We've all heard of them of the term love, what exactly is love? Is it a tingling sensation that causes people to do strange and seemingly foolish things? Is it a natural feeling that occurs in human beings? Does it occur by random chance or is it a choice of the individual?
Love is described as any of number of emotions that influence a strong sense of affection and attachment to someone or something. In fact, there are almost as many definitions of love as there are ways to love. It is said that true love is unconditional - it goes beyond the fleeting emotional roller-coaster ride of feelings that we experience as we go through life. People who are led by their emotions often fall 'in and out' of love.
It is only when love is unconditional - when you choose to love someone irrespective of who they are or how they can benefit you, that you find it's true meaning. When you love with all your heart, it is more a choice you make than an emotion you feel.
Love has motivated human beings to such great heights of achievements as much as hatred has driven us to depths of depravity. To truly make a difference, we must love radically. Unconditional love will grow stronger and mature over a lifetime nurturing lasting relationships and true friendships!
Live Simply, Love Generously, Care Deeply, Speak Kindly and Leave the Rest to God!
Love is described as any of number of emotions that influence a strong sense of affection and attachment to someone or something. In fact, there are almost as many definitions of love as there are ways to love. It is said that true love is unconditional - it goes beyond the fleeting emotional roller-coaster ride of feelings that we experience as we go through life. People who are led by their emotions often fall 'in and out' of love.
It is only when love is unconditional - when you choose to love someone irrespective of who they are or how they can benefit you, that you find it's true meaning. When you love with all your heart, it is more a choice you make than an emotion you feel.
Love has motivated human beings to such great heights of achievements as much as hatred has driven us to depths of depravity. To truly make a difference, we must love radically. Unconditional love will grow stronger and mature over a lifetime nurturing lasting relationships and true friendships!
Live Simply, Love Generously, Care Deeply, Speak Kindly and Leave the Rest to God!
December 31st 2009 =,=
Today is the last day of 2009, i missed this year of fun and joyful, with my new colleagues in airasia memories... very thanksful for all of ya being such kind and friendly and helpful to me as in a team! even tho im no longer working there anymore... but my strenght and support always be there! cheers guys! i love u all!
Kenny
Kenny
The lies...
Today, the saddest day ever in year 2009, finally the day of expected happened, me and her had a worst argument, is sad tho but i felt released... released from a cage that caught me for a year... finally i knew her real personality.
As the previous posted i hate liars, and she is and proven... i will never say sorry on that, many friends and peoples asked me, if i do say so, did i lied to anyone before? i make myself clear... yes! i lied to somebody before as well as everyone does on this world, but the case in lying is, depends on the lies is in a correct way or not, lies... can be make to help peoples, can be a topic to jokes on, can be cheering up a person, in worst can be hurting peoples, even worst can be killing peoples.
The stages on lying it might cannot be judge by anyone, it may consider good for person A, or i could be hurting person B.
But for the point of view of me, i myself i don't lies to friends especially close friends, i swear to god sake, my lies created to maybe friends that not close, or strangers to protecting myself.
Towards "her", i have no comment on her anymore... i can't believe that she could lie to me as a close friend. Or maybe she did not treated me as a good friend as well, who knows... only she knows... But honest speaking, if i tell her i treated her as buddy nor close friends... i am lying as well, other than that non of it i'm lying to her, the only lies i created is to hurt myself by saying she just my normal friends...
I like her, love her, but the result of return... it sting me badly... i'm hurt, but sooner will recovered, i felt released yet self depressed, ohh god... get rid of me from this please..
As the previous posted i hate liars, and she is and proven... i will never say sorry on that, many friends and peoples asked me, if i do say so, did i lied to anyone before? i make myself clear... yes! i lied to somebody before as well as everyone does on this world, but the case in lying is, depends on the lies is in a correct way or not, lies... can be make to help peoples, can be a topic to jokes on, can be cheering up a person, in worst can be hurting peoples, even worst can be killing peoples.
The stages on lying it might cannot be judge by anyone, it may consider good for person A, or i could be hurting person B.
But for the point of view of me, i myself i don't lies to friends especially close friends, i swear to god sake, my lies created to maybe friends that not close, or strangers to protecting myself.
Towards "her", i have no comment on her anymore... i can't believe that she could lie to me as a close friend. Or maybe she did not treated me as a good friend as well, who knows... only she knows... But honest speaking, if i tell her i treated her as buddy nor close friends... i am lying as well, other than that non of it i'm lying to her, the only lies i created is to hurt myself by saying she just my normal friends...
I like her, love her, but the result of return... it sting me badly... i'm hurt, but sooner will recovered, i felt released yet self depressed, ohh god... get rid of me from this please..
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
I got cheated again...
All the while i've been cheated, by a person who wearing a fake mask. Why people being such idiot towards friend? not to say i'm not open minded, but when comes to cheating relationship nor fake relationship issue, is a very sensitive to everybody, i strongly believe everyone do.
When you really wanted to treat a friend nicely, giving such cares and worries towards her, at the end you find out everything is fake, a faker fakes you in every effort you put on, your feeling will be like me.
I had no longer giving such effort anymore, to a person who fake is wasting your farking time, you care for her, she give a damn but in a fake way and after that forgot everything. A faker is hard to catch up, when a faker shows up, how you judge her/he is by their attitude, faker will never let you know their everything, even tho she/he pretend until as your close friend or buddy, this is not true friend, they had set their limitation to not let you know them so well if theres a chance for them, they will betray you easily.
Fakers are dangerous, they hurt you with no mercy, never hope even a single chance giving out from them.
My situation is like this, yes i admited this faker i talking about was my ex, we broke up about a year ago becoz of some issues, have been a year we did not contact each other, after a year from the net we contact back with just chatting online, never thought that we can be close 1 day, she tells me some of her stuffz such as working, social life style at 1st, slowly she goes into how she can actually buys my heart, by telling me her bad situation. And because of she was my ex before, and of cause i will still care for her, not because that i still love her or something, is because a resposibility that i've set for her. And so i helped her, helped her on wat i'm not writing thru here due to privacy issue. She successfully buys my heart, and she treated me like a close friend of her, and i'm happy because we was a couple, after broke off we can still be friends, the feeling is like long lost friend a close close friend somemore. We often eat dinner together, went for shopping, follow her to any vacations she invited me along, something similiar with couples do, and don't know why the feelings have comes back, i kept thinking our days before we broken up, but i find it weird because there are still something she hiding behind, it stops me from confess to her, i'm confused by that time, a weird feeling stopping me to move forward to say i love u to her, i asked around my friends the situation, my friends suggested better i make it clear 1st, so i tested her, i watch her patiently, she still hiding, she never tell, never admit, ok fine i said it to myself, and i continue wait, what will she do the next, she bought me a x'mas present, yes i'm happy of coz, but i still stick back to my plans, never soft heart towards her.
The next day she told me she flying off to vacation, so i offer her a ride to airport for a return gift back to her since she bought me a present, she refused, she said her friend will drive her car, send her to airport, purpose is she do not want to waste anyones petrol and toll $$, and then let her friend drive her car during she was out.
Ok that's fine as well, i had done my offer, she do not accept, i can't say anything right... and so on at x'mas eve, the night, i had a bbq party at my ex colleagues place, after that i am supposingly attend another house session at another friends house, and so i reached the 2nd party, when i turned my car into the junction my friend were living there, i saw her car! the number plate i will never forget, its unique and from ipoh as well, colors same as well, this is not wrong right... i told myself, i look properly again, yes... is her car, and the one who driving her car is my friend... why she telling lies?? why she can't just tell me the guy name which is my friend too fetching her and taking her car?? what is her purpose to lie to me?? there are so many question marks appeared in my mind suddenly, i thought we was close friends who help each other... turns out shitz things happened, if ever i din see it myself, i don't think she will tell me this... it is hurt as my effort broke, i was hope to be at least her close friend as we used to, but now after the incident, i don't think so... i hate her, for being such treating me like nobody and stupid and dumb toy for her... and so on... conclusion is... behave of fakers...
When you really wanted to treat a friend nicely, giving such cares and worries towards her, at the end you find out everything is fake, a faker fakes you in every effort you put on, your feeling will be like me.
I had no longer giving such effort anymore, to a person who fake is wasting your farking time, you care for her, she give a damn but in a fake way and after that forgot everything. A faker is hard to catch up, when a faker shows up, how you judge her/he is by their attitude, faker will never let you know their everything, even tho she/he pretend until as your close friend or buddy, this is not true friend, they had set their limitation to not let you know them so well if theres a chance for them, they will betray you easily.
Fakers are dangerous, they hurt you with no mercy, never hope even a single chance giving out from them.
My situation is like this, yes i admited this faker i talking about was my ex, we broke up about a year ago becoz of some issues, have been a year we did not contact each other, after a year from the net we contact back with just chatting online, never thought that we can be close 1 day, she tells me some of her stuffz such as working, social life style at 1st, slowly she goes into how she can actually buys my heart, by telling me her bad situation. And because of she was my ex before, and of cause i will still care for her, not because that i still love her or something, is because a resposibility that i've set for her. And so i helped her, helped her on wat i'm not writing thru here due to privacy issue. She successfully buys my heart, and she treated me like a close friend of her, and i'm happy because we was a couple, after broke off we can still be friends, the feeling is like long lost friend a close close friend somemore. We often eat dinner together, went for shopping, follow her to any vacations she invited me along, something similiar with couples do, and don't know why the feelings have comes back, i kept thinking our days before we broken up, but i find it weird because there are still something she hiding behind, it stops me from confess to her, i'm confused by that time, a weird feeling stopping me to move forward to say i love u to her, i asked around my friends the situation, my friends suggested better i make it clear 1st, so i tested her, i watch her patiently, she still hiding, she never tell, never admit, ok fine i said it to myself, and i continue wait, what will she do the next, she bought me a x'mas present, yes i'm happy of coz, but i still stick back to my plans, never soft heart towards her.
The next day she told me she flying off to vacation, so i offer her a ride to airport for a return gift back to her since she bought me a present, she refused, she said her friend will drive her car, send her to airport, purpose is she do not want to waste anyones petrol and toll $$, and then let her friend drive her car during she was out.
Ok that's fine as well, i had done my offer, she do not accept, i can't say anything right... and so on at x'mas eve, the night, i had a bbq party at my ex colleagues place, after that i am supposingly attend another house session at another friends house, and so i reached the 2nd party, when i turned my car into the junction my friend were living there, i saw her car! the number plate i will never forget, its unique and from ipoh as well, colors same as well, this is not wrong right... i told myself, i look properly again, yes... is her car, and the one who driving her car is my friend... why she telling lies?? why she can't just tell me the guy name which is my friend too fetching her and taking her car?? what is her purpose to lie to me?? there are so many question marks appeared in my mind suddenly, i thought we was close friends who help each other... turns out shitz things happened, if ever i din see it myself, i don't think she will tell me this... it is hurt as my effort broke, i was hope to be at least her close friend as we used to, but now after the incident, i don't think so... i hate her, for being such treating me like nobody and stupid and dumb toy for her... and so on... conclusion is... behave of fakers...
Friday, December 25, 2009
New Job, New challenge, New stress, New headache
Well i just joined this company named 101 haircare treatment, something similiar to Yun Nam haircare that i think mostly of everyone heard before, sooner or later i do believe 101 haircare will beat down Yun Nam and be the market leader as now we are still number 2nd. Any how this is a tough challenge for my beloved 2 bosses and the whole team! and also depends on consultants sales! hahaha.
Being a member of a strong team and fast growing expanding company as 101 haircare, i am ready to take any challenge the comes into my line, however there are lots problems and barrels during problem solving, will not always go as well as you though, working life challenge really not that easy.
This new job given me knowledge of responsibility, follow-up and supervisor skills, not as my previous job "AA" take do not take any responsibility to customers, i would not write it so clearly later kena swe.. haha.
This is the job that i wanted to work on so far, not only for future manager skills, is for my future business manage skills as well, how plan to work on a budget, select outlets to open, renovation, marketing, contructions, multi task as i never expected when i 1st join in here. Really do appreciate it. i will put all of my effort into here, and i hope to see 101 haircare grow to market leader! and i strongly believe it will! 101 rocks!!
Being a member of a strong team and fast growing expanding company as 101 haircare, i am ready to take any challenge the comes into my line, however there are lots problems and barrels during problem solving, will not always go as well as you though, working life challenge really not that easy.
This new job given me knowledge of responsibility, follow-up and supervisor skills, not as my previous job "AA" take do not take any responsibility to customers, i would not write it so clearly later kena swe.. haha.
This is the job that i wanted to work on so far, not only for future manager skills, is for my future business manage skills as well, how plan to work on a budget, select outlets to open, renovation, marketing, contructions, multi task as i never expected when i 1st join in here. Really do appreciate it. i will put all of my effort into here, and i hope to see 101 haircare grow to market leader! and i strongly believe it will! 101 rocks!!
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